Thursday Three

Oh, hello. It’s Thursday?! This week has gone SO fast! Three-day weekends are the best, but four-day work weeks are rough. Everything gets crammed into less time, and I just can’t quite keep up this week. It doesn’t help that some early mornings have been involved as every night for me is also a late night. When else is a girl to blog? You think these things just happen? Umm, no. But I love doing it, so it’s okay.

1. Our friends opened their coffee shop. (YEAH!!!) Speaking of things that don’t just happen…after months of hard work and planning, some of our good friends opened their very own coffee shop. There was a pre-party over the weekend and then the official first day on Labor Day. We had so much fun seeing all of their effort finally come to fruition and spent much of Monday just hanging out there as several other friends, neighbors and acquaintances trickled in and out to share in the opening day.

BREW Menu

Local Coffee and Beer

Look at that handsome guy. H could be a part-time model.
Look at that handsome guy. Could be a part-time model.

2. Old friends make great company. Over the weekend my friend Emily came for a visit. We’ve known each other since 6th grade softball and were good friends all through high school. She recently moved from Iowa to Georgia, meaning she is now only a few hours away. I loved having her stay with us as there’s something so natural about being with a friend you’ve known for so long. We didn’t really do anything too different from an ordinary Saturday, but it was nice to have another person to laugh with and someone to tell you if your outfit looks good or not. She saved me from buying a couple of doozies at the consignment store this weekend.

Emily

3. Too many conflicting thoughts make for a long day. I mentioned it, but the week has been crammed tight. With that comes different thoughts and feelings because with each new minute comes another thought or idea or emotion. A few days this week seemed so long (despite the short week) as there were so many different thoughts packed within them. One minute my life seems to be going in the right direction and the next it seems like I am completely behind on all of my to-dos and lose sight of who I am or what I am capable of. It’s amazing what a comment or success or failure can do to your perspective on something. At church right now we’re focusing on the big rocks vs. small rocks. Priorities vs. everything else. Before the series I thought I had a decent foundation on what was actually important. In the past two weeks alone it has become more clear that I am wearing myself too thin and not always focusing on the right things first. I’m trying to make adjustments, but in this time of scrambling to sort through job things while still wanting to be a great friend, hard worker, loving wife and everything else there is to be it’s hard to narrow it down. I don’t believe in glorifying busy, so I need to figure out a way to be less busy and that’s not easy.

 

Thursday Three

Let’s just cut to the chase.

1. Sometimes it’s nice to go off the grid. Did we do that while camping? Not really, thanks to some helicopter drills at all hours of the night, but we had a good time pitching a tent near the bay anyway. Down by the bay…

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2. Being disconnected isn’t all bad. I finally broke down and agreed to upgrade to the new IOS (I know, way behind), and it resulted in a phone stuck in recovery mode for the better part of 24 hours. But life went on and I enjoyed not being slave to a phone all day long.

3. Catching up with old friends can be either really awesome or really hard. It likely depends what you feel is going on and what you share. The last two weeks I’ve been sending long personal emails to people I haven’t seen in years and really enjoyed hearing from them in return. Not only that, but I got to better understand and articulate my own story. I got to share all of the things that have happened in the past five years, and it seems like a lot of transition when it’s all written out. To be honest, there are a few things that have been going on in the last month that I haven’t known how to share, things that aren’t all easy to explain. I’ve been isolating myself a bit as I’ve tried to grasp everything all at once. I promise to fill you in later, but in the meantime, please forgive me if I seem withdrawn. I’m just sorting through things but fully intend to soak up some of the sunny goodness of the summer and enjoy the people around me.