Being Enough

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Not enough.

How often do we hear that phrase and don’t even realize it? Or worse, how often do we say that to someone else?

Not enough experience or not enough enthusiasm. Not enough knowledge or not enough confidence. Not enough wisdom or not enough motivation. Not enough practice or not enough raw talent. Not enough.

All day long we hear that in some form or another from society–from our job applications, from our teachers, from our bosses, from our family and even from our friends. You’re not enough…this.

When we feel like we are not enough we seek more. We try to do, be and possess MORE. A never ending chase results in us grasping for more so we can finally feel enough. Over time it leaves us feeling worn down and exhausted. We can’t keep up with the rate that more requires, which in turn leads us to feeling once again, not enough. Not enough time, not enough strength, not enough stamina.

But wait a minute. Listen.

How often are we actually told we are not enough compared to how often we reinforce it and decide to believe it? Is it truth? Further, is it even what is being said? Or do we assign ourselves this label of not enough before we hear what we’re being told? When we allow this battle of not being enough to win, we always lose. If you want to play that game, there will always be something in our lives that feels like not enough.

So stop allowing not enough to dictate who you are.

You are enough. Right now. In this very moment. You are complete. Rest in that.

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If you need to hear more truth, this is where to find it:

“I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
    your works are wonderful,
    I know that full well.” -Psalm 139:14

And I saw that all toil and all achievement spring from one person’s envy of another. This too is meaningless, a chasing after the wind.” – Ecclesiastes 4:4

 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” – Matthew 11:28

 

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9 thoughts on “Being Enough

  • October 7, 2014 at 9:55 PM
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    “I think the enemy tricks us into believing we are not enough because he knows if we discover the truth, we’ll be unstoppable.”-Holley Gerth

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  • October 7, 2014 at 10:55 PM
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    Thank you so much for this, Samantha! I have actually been telling myself: ‘I don’t know if you are enough’ since the start of this 31 day writing challenge. And today, I reached the point of exhaustion from my self-talk. This was a timely read! Glad to have found your post & blog!

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  • October 7, 2014 at 11:29 PM
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    As a teacher, I struggle with this. I know my students need to be educated, but we are making them cookie cutter humans with unimportant measuring sticks.

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    • October 8, 2014 at 11:37 PM
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      As I wrote this I wondered about that. I think it’s tricky because our society is built on this system of values. I think we can all improve and work to be better, smarter, stronger, etc. But knowing we are enough, as is, is a level of worth and value that is hard to explain and fully accept. It’s an unconditional type of love and worth that goes beyond the type of value we as humans put on things.

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  • October 8, 2014 at 2:52 AM
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    Definitely a good reminder we need to hear over and over again! Happy Wednesday from a fellow 31 Dayer!

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